The Ideology of Motherhood: A Historical Perspective

The Bliss of Motherhood

A well-known summary of the ideology of motherhood is the “belief that all women need to be mothers, all mothers need their children and all children need their mothers” (Oakley, 1986: p. 67). This ideology has deep roots in history and has been reinforced by various social institutions over time.

Historical Influences

In the past, motherhood was often portrayed as the ultimate fulfillment for women. The 'bliss' of motherhood was promoted, not least by the Christian church, as the highest calling for women. Women were expected to sacrifice their own ambitions and desires for the sake of their children, reinforcing the idea that motherhood should be their primary role in society.

Social Expectations

Throughout history, society has placed a strong emphasis on the importance of motherhood. Women who did not conform to this ideal were often stigmatized and marginalized. The pressure to be a perfect mother could be overwhelming, leading to feelings of guilt and inadequacy for those who did not meet society's expectations.

Changing Perspectives

Thankfully, in recent years, there has been a shift in attitudes towards motherhood. Women are increasingly encouraged to define motherhood on their own terms and to pursue their own aspirations alongside their role as mothers. There is a growing recognition that motherhood is not the only path to fulfillment for women, and that each individual should be free to make their own choices.

Conclusion

While the ideology of motherhood has a long and complex history, it is important to recognize that it is not a one-size-fits-all concept. Women should be allowed to define motherhood in a way that is meaningful to them, and to pursue their own paths to fulfillment and happiness.